The Three Minute Grandparent: Walking on Water

“You want the impossible!  I’m not even going to try!”  Has this ever been thrown in your face?  You reach out and try to help; you give and give then someone bounces this off your wall.  It hurts and you wonder, “Why did I ever reach out to ________?”  These grandparents heard it a time or two and felt the sting of those words.  In retrospect, perhaps the impossible or near impossible was requested from time to time from those that we love the most.  We watched our children grow and wanted to give a nudge here and there; Perhaps a “helpful” comment to help them move forward.  Growing is never easy; however, “If you want to walk on water, you must climb out of the boat.” Walking on water is dangerous, is this hard or soft water?  Seriously, in order to walk on water, one must face the real possibility of getting wet or worse!  It means, one has taken a definitive step from the zone of safety and moved into the vast unknown.  It also means that someone has a goal and is moving in a positive direction.  Walking on water takes Guts!  This Grandpa wants to remain young enough to get out of the boat on a regular basis…AND….encourage his children and grandchildren to risk getting wet!  Don’t just go fishing, get out of the boat and go Running!

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