Contrasts
It was the best of times; it was the worst of times. Not only the opening line to a famous book, this descriptor fit October 26, 1983 for this Grandpa. Word was received that my Father died suddenly and the world as I knew it changed. Daddy was my rock, my stability. He had always been with me and suddenly, was gone. We had just spent a week with Mom and Dad at the beach, walking swimming, fishing, laughing, reading books to our children…and he was gone, in an instant. I was devastated, lost, and grieving. How could I continue to live a normal life? Daddy was thirty years older than me and the past 30 years had always brought an introspective look each October 26. I knew that one year, I would be my Father’s age…and this is the year, this is the day; an anniversary that has been dreaded and thought about through the years. I miss my Daddy even after 30 years. Speaking of contrasts, it was the best of times when Grandson made me...